August 11, 2005

Do you remember?

Tara sat in my lap in her pink princess nightgown, hair slicked back from a shower. I called Austin and John into the room so they could witness her reaction. We really weren't sure what she would do, but I wanted to show her a picture on the Web of a little boy who was adopted last month from Little Birch Tree orphanage in Kiev, the same Ukraine orphanage Tara Vika is from.

The little boy, whose new American name is Nicholas, is just one day younger than Tara. We aren't sure yet if they were in the same group, but it seems like they would have been. I am trying to remember him. Nicholas' mother and I have emailed each other about similar adoption experiences. These blogs bring people together.

I did not tell her who he was or where he was from. With John and Austin hovering behind us at the computer, I pulled up the pictures taken outside at the orphanage with his new parents.

She smiled! She pointed! She shouted, "Bo!"
I asked her, is that your friend? She said, "Yes! Bo!" She was excited to see him.
Nicholas' former Ukrainian name: Bogdan. She remembered. What else does she remember?

Click here to see Nicholas.

Posted by Laura at August 11, 2005 10:57 AM
Posted to Tara's Story
Comments

Wow! Wow! Wow! Totally amazing. Yeah, it does make you wonder what she remembers, and what she must think of her new life. Or what she dreams about. Incredible! She's really only been here 16 weeks! That's not very long. Did you notice Nicholas has that closed down "orphan face"? It will be neat to see his eyes come alive with expression! Just like Tara's did. :-) Wonder what his real personality is like?

Posted by: sally at August 12, 2005 08:47 AM

Surely Tara remembers some things about the orphange. They are becoming memories. with being in her new home and family, she has so much to look forward to.

Jeanne

Posted by: Jeanne at August 12, 2005 07:58 PM

Ha ha and Bogdan is usually pronounced with the 'g' practically silent. Sounds more like Bo-Don. Did you watch the video yet or the cd? I am curious. You are doing right by your daughter. Every single day.

Posted by: karen wiz at August 13, 2005 04:24 PM

Great blog. Thanks for the thoughts, I especially loved when your daughter recognized her friend bo. My wife and I just opened our first blog as we've started our journey to China to adopt a little girl (Typepad: SophiesNewParents).

Posted by: Rich Patterson at August 23, 2005 11:32 PM

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